Some months ago, I volunteered to partner with Global Goodwill Ambassadors, United States to raise more awareness of child abuse.
Signs of abuse
One of the key ways to solve a problem is by getting information about it. It positions you to act correctly. Over 40% of children around the world experience abuse annually and this translates to over 1 billion children.
1)Physical abuse
You might notice any of the following in the child’s appearance: unusual bruises, welts, burns or fractures, bite marks, frequent injuries explained as accidental, injuries that don’t match explanation and wearing long sleeves or concealing clothing.
You might notice any of the following or a combination in the child’s behaviour: unpleasant, hard to get along with, too anxious to please, appears to be afraid of parents, unusually shy, avoids other people or shows little or no distress at being separated from parents
2) Neglect
You might notice the child’s appearance is dirty. Presence of body odour, dirty hair and general poor hygiene. Clothes might be inappropriate for the weather and the child might need medical or dental care
3) Emotional abuse
This is more obvious in behaviour than in physical appearance. You might notice withdrawal from friends and social activities, loss of self esteem, frequent lateness or absence from school, defiant behaviour or changes in school performance
4) Sexual abuse
You might notice torn, stained or bloody clothing, pain or itching in child’s genital areas or a sexually transmitted infection. The child’s behaviour could change abruptly. It could be extreme reluctance to be touched, inappropriate touching of other children or sexual knowledge or behaviour that us inappropriate of child’s age
If you notice any of these signs, you have a duty to help. Remain calm and comfort the child. Don’t try to force out information as the child will only speak more if they gauge your reaction correctly. Know the child protection procedure in your state of residence and follow up